Jealousy some times improves us as a person. Jealousy should be base to improve our own personality rather than using others to achieve our ends.
But I see most of us are more used to taking the quick route to climb up in life rather than the real toil. We forget that in the process of mud slinging we do a great deal of damage to our own image and mind, which develops like a mutant to take pride in doing so.
For each of these acts we cover up to show we are right each time so that we may enjoy this act and it then becomes a habit, like how they say you can fool some people all the time, you can fool all people sometime, but you cannot fool all the people all the time, they will be enlightened sometime or the other.
I read an article which targeted one of the regular writers, saying that even though her writings are always about not so important issues, they are always highlighted by the editor because of their literary skill. The accuser won the first battle; the editor stopped highlighting her works. But the damage which he or she did to his or her own soul was it worth it?
The people who are targeting other’s writings are really funny, the common usage of terms hints they are either the same person or a group of people. Their sole target seems to harass others without any ample reason. May be to scare or irritate other writers to silence so they can be the kings of the jungle.
When they write they don’t even bother to read the stuff they are making comments on, or don’t even check the meaning of the words they are writing.
I used to hear about such people, that there are people who are so envious by nature that they will go to any length to satisfy their envy, now after blogging for almost a year, I have realized that they do exist.
But in the long run they always get defeated, because no matter how mud is splattered on rita, she is what she is, and no matter how much compliments are paid to a mediocre writer by his close friends, he will never become Rita.
Now its our mindset what we will do, shall we try to throw mud at Rita and get famous that way, or we shall try to improve our skills as much as we can and hope some day we may be remembered like her.
Never allow our mind to become a distorted to damage others and then it becomes a habit but to retain our own image by improvising on what we write and reach the mass with our mind and expression, right channelizing of our efforts will definitely pay off.
None is born in this world as a mud slinger but then let us cultivate this habit of improvising all the way so that we stay in line and use that energy to come up rather than stay behind others and waste our energy….sunkan
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thanku sara for your input here, it is just that when one of the writers tries to bash u up for no cause then all these feelings fly out as flares..this is one ..sunkan
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Sara
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thanku avinashjee,
very true the short route seems to have attracted many and the end is also equally attractive, i am happy we have a delete button and a block this user we can save a lot many frustration due to this...sunkan
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It' s really wonderful. I totally agree with you.
With regards,
Vijay
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Agreed.
There are two ways to make a line drawn by someone else shorter. One is to erase it. The other is to draw a bigger line than that. The latter route is a route that makes you better. The first one is without any self improvement.
But how many of us follow the second route?
Good blog.
Avinash
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thanku sudha,
happy u agree with me here..sunkan
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dear scribbling pad,
happy u join me here and agree with me, we see them and bring them to light some live through...sunkan
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rao garu,
why do u think we have bhagavad gita at home sometime from time to time we need to browse through to set our mind right which may be straying without our knowledge. like wise let us spread from time to time about these attitudes so that people do get a whip in mind to set themselves right...sunkan
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dear sceptic,
sometimes in life we need to keep spreading these improvement skills and advise around to awaken the people who are indulging in these kind of mud slinging all the time..sunkan
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very tru munamallick,
there was a joke too about these things that one can leave the tin open that belonged to indian crabs as they will not allow the other to get out...sunkan
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